Monaghan man jailed for four years for sexually assaulting friend he walked home

By Eimear Dodd

A man who sexually assaulted his female friend while walking her home after a night out has been jailed for four years.

James Rafferty (21) of Gola, Scotstown, Co Monaghan, pleaded guilty at the Central Criminal Court to one count of sexual assault on August 14th, 2022, at a location in County Monaghan. He has no previous convictions.

Reading her victim impact statement at a previous sentence hearing, the woman said the then 18-year-old man was “my friend, someone I thought I could trust”. She said he offered to walk her home “under the guise of being a gentleman,” but then repeatedly sexually assaulted her on the journey.

On Monday, Justice Eileen Creedon said this was an extremely serious sexual assault which featured persistent and ongoing assault, including forcing the woman to touch his genitals.

She said after the woman told him to leave her alone he continued to follow her. Evidence was heard that the defendant and the woman, then aged 19, were socialising separately in the same pub earlier on the night.

Later, she encountered the man again while she was walking home. They kissed and she later told gardaí she didn't know why she kissed him.

During the walk he sexually assaulted her. The girl pushed him away afterwards.

He kissed her again and she kissed him back, hoping he would leave her alone but he sexually assaulted her again by putting his hand down her trousers, the court heard.

She pushed him off and walked away. Once home, the woman texted family members and her father found her very upset. The gardaí were contacted.

'I said no'

The next day, she sent Rafferty a message on Snapchat saying “I said ‘no’ to you” and he replied saying “I am sorry”. He later told gardaí all the sexual activity was consensual and denied offending.

The man was found nearby by the woman's brother and father, who brought him to the garda station.

When interviewed by gardaí, the man admitted consensual kissing. He initially denied sexually assaulting the victim and said he had no memory of the incident. He later accepted it had happened but said it was consensual.

Justice Creedon set a headline sentence of seven years. She reduced this to five years in light of the mitigating factors, including the plea of guilty made last May, the lack of other offending and the unreserved apology offered by Rafferty.

She suspended the final year on condition that he keep the peace and engage with the Probation Service for one year in relation to offence and victim awareness work.

She noted a Probation Service report in which Rafferty accepts completely the victim's version of events, acknowledged his behaviour was inappropriate and expressed concern for the effect of his actions.

The investigating garda agreed with Michael Bowman SC, defending, that his client was seen by the woman's brother near to her home in a highly intoxicated state before he and the woman's father picked him up in a car.

It was further accepted that the man comes from a decent family and told gardaí that while he had no memory, what they described was “really messed up”.

In her victim impact statement, the woman said “what Rafferty did hurt more than you can imagine”. She said her confidence was taken in one night and one walk home.

She said she has had to search for herself over the last three years, but the woman she was before that night “will never walk through the front door again”.

“It's a grief my family and I live with daily”, adding that everyday has felt like a “battle to rebuild myself not as the girl I once was, but as someone entirely different”.

She outlined struggling with anxiety, intrusive thoughts, and panic attacks.

“Everything, my education, finances, identity has vanished because he didn’t respect the word 'no' no matter how many times I said it.”

She said she was unable to complete driving lessons as she was too afraid to be alone with a male driving instructor and said what happened impacted her relationships.

She said she learnt that the problem is “rooted in the attitude of some boys and men in this country” and she didn't know exactly where things went wrong. She said the local gardaí and her father encouraged her to stand up and fight “not only for myself, but all the girls who couldn't speak”.

They “told me my voice matters, even when it felt the world wasn’t listening”.

She noted the man's guilty plea will mean a reduction in his sentence.

“Great for him, not me. I’ve done three years and he’s acted innocent all three of them,” she said.

“He waited and stretched this whole process out as long as he could. Not because he had any remorse, but because he was selfish.”

“By doing this, he caused me unnecessary mental torment,” she said, adding she felt he was “playing a game with something that has devastated my life”.

“Yet again. I'm the one who has to carry the emotional consequences of his actions”.

If you have been affected by any of the issues raised in this article, you can call the national 24-hour Rape Crisis Helpline at 1800-77 8888, access text service and webchat options at drcc.ie/services/helpline/ or visit Rape Crisis Help.